Grownups have a really hard time letting their hair down.
It can seem darn near impossible to put responsibility on hold for a minute and fully enjoy what life has to offer. To simply be silly and do something only for the sake of wanting to do it can seem frivolous compared to what we “have to do”.
But spending too much time all knotted up with serious face will lead to anxiety and depression.
Halloween as the perfect opportunity to combat that. An opportunity to play pretend, step outside your comfort zone, and let your freak flag fly.
This allows you to relax, not take things so seriously, and have some good laughs, all of which are super helpful for your mood.
So for all you grownups who’ve forgotten how to Halloween, here are some spooky, cute, and silly ways to celebrate:
Haunted House
Haunted hayride. Haunted bathroom. What?! If you’re into getting scared, hit up the closest one. In small doses, fear can actually be a positive thing as it can get your adrenaline pumping. Adrenaline makes you feel alive and gives you a boost of energy, which helps your mood and life satisfaction overall.
Scary Movie Night
Even if all you can handle is the movie “Scary Movie,” get some friends together. You don't want to try this one on your own. Full disclosure, I tried this once and thought my neighbor was a murderer out to get me. Haven’t tried that again since. Same as with haunted houses, this can give us an adrenaline rush, making life more exciting and fulfilling.
Decorate
Whether you’re into scary or cute, Halloween decorations run the gamut. Even just some basic pumpkins can get you in the mood. And bonus, you can turn them into soup later! Or bread. Or muffins. (I might be hungry.) A tip if you’re low on dough, dollar stores actually tend to have some quality items that can be saved and reused year after year.
Play Dress Up
Get yourself a costume. It’s just as much fun as an adult. Maybe even more because you can be anything you want. Buy a costume. Make a costume. If you must do the sexy thing, go for it, but please, please, please at least get creative with it. This is your opportunity be anyone or anything you want. Think outside of the box. Be “outside of the box,” whatever that looks like. Playing pretend is important as an adult too as it allows us to get out of our day-to-day routines and dream more, maybe even giving us some insight into what we truly want out of our life.
Pass Out Candy
Or apples. Or toys. Or toothbrushes. (If you’re really lame, just kidding.) It’s always fun to witness the excitement and joy on those little ones’ faces. And a good excuse to eat some mini candy bars and weird fruit flavored chews.
Carve Pumpkins
They can be scary Jack-o-lanterns or super adorable takes on the latest memes. Or paint them if getting gooey insides all over you isn’t your thing. Or… whatever else you can do to pumpkins. I’m sure there are many creative ideas out there. And because I'm still hungry, you can also roast the seeds and sprinkle some flavoring on them for a delicious and nutritious snack.
Have A Party
Combine as many of the above ideas as you want. Or incorporate your own. Invite some friends over. Bob for apples (I left that one off.). Get some dry ice. When I was in the 4th grade, my mom threw my friends and I an epic bash that people still talk about years later (We won’t go into how many.). To this day I still love hosting and going to as many Halloween parties as I can possibly cram into Halloween season.
So grownups, get on out there! Put the bills in a drawer (Unfortunately they aren’t going anywhere fast.). Hide the protein powder. Turn off your phone. And put on a wig, buy some candy, paint your face, laugh and scream with joy. Your inner child will thank you and I bet your stress level go down.